In high school, I had a new boyfriend every few months and was rarely single. So, when I got to college, I figured it would be the same. But, no guy was interested in anything other than a casual hookup and hanging out in his dorm. I was honestly kind of scared to be alone with a guy in his room. This fear didn't come from being a virgin because I had already had sex before. I guess I was just nervous about going too far with someone I didn't know well. I decided not to sleep with any guys for the first few months because I figured that I'd eventually feel comfortable enough with the casual dating style of college.