After a few weeks of dating this guy, I decided it was time to tell him I am bisexual. I haven't told my family and only my close friends know. I was worried he would freak out, because he had said some borderline offensive things about the LGBTQ community in the past. He meant them as jokes, but I feared those jokes were just a tiny veil for his homophobia. He didn't freak out. He was thrilled. He said he finally found a girl who would be open to a three-way. I declined, saying that I wasn't comfortable enough in this relationship to bring in another person.